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The Queen of Inadvertent Alienation ([personal profile] lil_m_moses) wrote2025-12-12 10:42 pm
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FU, Spectrum

Of course. Too good to last. I've had Mom's phone whitelist set up for a whole month, and then they change it. The whitelist could only have 48 numbers on it, which wasn't exactly a lot. Now they've helpfully reduced it to only 32. And I got a notification of the change today, which has already beenbeen done today, and got directed to a FAQ telling me if I didn't trim the list before the change that the existing list would be wiped out and I'd have to start over. Awesome. So she's definitely been getting more spam calls today that are ringing through. And remember, this was only ever a list of phone numbers; you can't even label them. Good thing I built a spreadsheet the week after I initially set it up.

Oh, and the option to have it email your voicemails with a transcription is also wildly unreliable - I won't get any emails for days, but there's a steady stream of hangup voicemails when I call in from her phone to clear them out.

Did I mention I worked another 50 hour week this week, basically half between yesterday and today? I DO NOT have time, patience, or mental bandwidth for this bullshit.

EDIT: haha, I'm a dunce. The email says this is happening a month from now. 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Kate ([personal profile] julian) wrote2025-12-12 09:32 am

Oh, nice!

Someone anonymous bought me paid time, with the note, "I love your bird photos," which is a) kind, and b) gives me incentive to *take* some bird photos. And other photos. And, as a necessary corollary, walks.

Before that, I need to find my walking boots, one of which is in Some Bag Or Box, and also possibly buy other boots (because snow), which is always somewhat tangled because I have ridiculous calves and ankles.

But meantime, I can organize my tags! And post other things. And so on.

Anyway, thank you, Photononymous!
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Kate ([personal profile] julian) wrote2025-12-11 02:13 pm
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a sadness

[personal profile] supergee, aka Arthur Hlavaty, who I was never close to but enjoyed, died a day or so ago. He wrote engagingly, both on Dreamwidth/LJ and other places, apparently knew like, everyone in SF fandom. His wife's post on it, and Kalimac's reminisce.

Peace to his wife and husband, aka [profile] nellorat and [personal profile] womzilla.

He was very much a fanzine fan, and had a life and a half in various ways. He was quietly who he was, and lived his life as that; witness his family, for example. As I said, I liked him, in a "ships passing in the night" sense, and I'm mostly posting about it because... Well, people matter. The people who make up community, who are in the same places.

(Also, writer John Varley has probably died, though I haven't seen a definitive post on that yet. I've enjoyed what I read of him, but he was never one of the ones I really *connected* to.)
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marthawells ([personal profile] marthawells) wrote2025-12-10 01:46 pm

News

Some news:

* The Murderbot and fantasy novel Humble Bundle has returned for two days. The charity donation is still World Central Kitchen:

https://www.humblebundle.com/books/martha-wells-murderbot-and-more-tor-books-encore


* I'll be co-guest of honor with John Picacio at AggieCon 55 on January 30-February 1 2026 in College Station, TX.

https://www.aggiecon.net/


* Also you can preorder Platform Decay, the next book in The Murderbot Diaries, at whichever retailer you prefer, and it will be out on May 5, 2026. Published by Tor Books, cover art by Jaime Jones, edited by Lee Harris.


https://bookshop.org/p/books/platform-decay-martha-wells/8cf1662cf8bf8d15?ean=9781250827005&next=t
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The Queen of Inadvertent Alienation ([personal profile] lil_m_moses) wrote2025-12-08 10:20 pm
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Easy Efficiency

As a followup, I replaced both main floor bathroom fans on my long Thanksgiving weekend, and it was indeed super easy. The master one got cleaned in the process, and its flapper similarly fixed because it was also upside down and defaulting to open. The new fans are about 10 dB quieter (advertised as 1 sone quieter), which is a crazy difference. The even crazier thing is that our master bath is staying about 5°F warmer overnight - it regularly got down into the low 50s overnight in the winter because it only has 1 vent and no return, has a partial cantilevered bump-out section, and has 3 windows. High 50s is still mighty chilly in the morning, but those 3 little washers make a big difference.

I also fixed the basement bath's shower door over the weekend. The glass had slid down in its side grip so much that the bottom glass edge and the aluminum bottom guard were eating each other every time the door opened and closed. I'd been putting it off, but it turned out to be a lot easier to fix than feared, due to the magic of self-tapping screws. Just picked new spots in the rail for the holes, put some shims under the door to hold it up higher, and 4 screws later it was done. Trimming the new bottom sweep seal almost took more effort.

And tonight kiddo and I fixed the basement bath toilet, which had a leaky seal on the flush valve. She got a lesson in some very basic and easy home repair, and we had a nice dinner out together after picking up the part and while Josh worked the closing library shift.

Next up:

  • Fix a newly slow, noisy fill on the master toilet (probably some debris in the fill valve).
  • Address the bathroom windows. There are honeycomb blinds on the windows, which we keep closed most of the time for privacy, but between the lack of circulation and the cold humid bathroom and even colder window surfaces, there's crazy mildew all over the window frames. I cleaned them a couple of summers ago and repainted them with mildew-resistant stuff, but you'd never know it - they're super gross. So the new idea is to put some decorative privacy film on the bottom section so we can raise the blinds halfway and hopefully have less, or less long-lasting, moisture collecting on the bottoms of the frames, and still be able to see out the top when we want to. We already run a dehumidifier in there in the winter, but it's not enough. We picked this film: https://artscape-inc.com/products/window-film-colored-stained-glass-new-leaf
  • Upgrade the kitchen under-cabinet lights. There are 4 (actually 3) existing fluorescent fixtures hardwired in around the kitchen and controlled by a single switch. They get pretty warm, they're mounted at the wall edge of the cabinets instead of the front, and one is missing and presumed failed, all of which add up to us rarely using them. I finally did the research last weekend and ordered all the parts I need from Armacost Lighting. The plan is to install 4 small power supplies on the existing line power connection points, each driving a chunk or three of continuous LED strip at a different stretch of overhead cabinets, plus maybe one across the bottom of the over-stove microwave since the built-in light is pretty far back and dim, and I'll have enough extra connectors and light tape.

    That's the dream, anyway. The reality is that it might take me a while to get to all those. I was really hoping and kinda trying to get Mom into a care facility before the snow flew, but that ship has sailed, and it sure seems like the snow might stick around from Thanksgiving on for the first time in many years. I know which place I prefer for her; I need to call them again to see if they might have the room type I want for her available (facing the nature and with a patio), which they didn't 2.5 months ago. She's going to hate anything for a while, but this needs to happen. Between me and my aunt we've been doing this multiple weekly visits thing for 2 years now, and it's a lot (Mom lives 12 miles out of town, plus another 5 of 6 for me to get to that side of town) for one person parenting and often working long weeks and another who's 80. Mom's doctors have been telling me to do this for even longer than that. But she loves her house and land and I do hate to take her from it. I'll still have to go take care of it regularly, but it'd be a less regimented schedule, and less interference from and endless repeated conversations with her while doing it.
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    Kate ([personal profile] julian) wrote2025-12-08 06:11 pm

    moar mommage

    Once my mom got from the hospital to a rehab facility, she got a lot more There. (I mean, still has dementia, so not *that* there, but conscious and coherent.)

    And, turns out, what actually actually happened, contrary to my last post, is that she sort of did have a stroke, but not really. A former stroke, in essence.

    Medical details and muttering, but nothing gross. )

    My dad is like, "I don't need help myself! So why should the light housekeeping people come just for me!" so I'm going to call him tomorrow and basically go, "They can help arrange the house for when mom comes home," which is, after all, true. But they can also help 89-year-old *him*, too. Cough.

    All in all, I dislike this phase of things.
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    The Queen of Inadvertent Alienation ([personal profile] lil_m_moses) wrote2025-12-05 10:12 pm
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    November Media

    Books Finished
    - True Gretch by Gretchen Whitmer [e-audio] - affirmed for me that she's good people
    - Cibola Burn by James S.A. Corey [e-audio] (3rd? read)
    - The Time Traveler's Passport edited by John Joseph Adams [e-audio]
    - Yellowface by R.F. Kuang [e-audio]
    - Binti by Nnedi Okorafor [e-audio] (reread)
    - Binti: Home by Nnedi Okorafor [e-audio]
    - Binti: The Night Masquerade by Nnedi Okorafor [e-audio]
    - Nemesis Games by James S.A. Corey [e-audio] (3rd? read)
    - Carpe Glitter by Cat Rambo [e-audio]
    - Remote Control by Nnedi Okorafor [e-audio]
    - Class Clown: The Memoirs of a Professional Wiseass by Dave Barry [e-audio]


    Library DVDs/Streaming Programs Watched
    - Resident Alien: S3D1-2 [2 equiv]
    - Nobody Wants This: S2 [2 equiv]
    - Becoming Led Zeppelin
    - Dark Winds: S3 [2 equiv]
    - A Man on the Inside: S2 [1 equiv]
    - Interview with the Vampire: S1 [2 equiv]
    - The Great Pottery Throwdown: S8 [3 equiv]