cyrano: (weasel love)
Cyrano Jones ([personal profile] cyrano) wrote2005-06-28 11:36 am

Tell me what you eat, I might cook for you

So is it arrogant or presumptuous to call it a double date when it's me and two women?

(Anonymous) 2005-06-28 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
Servitude.

Semantics

[identity profile] tersa.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 11:57 am (UTC)(link)
I think it'd be 'incorrect' but not arrogant or presumptuous.

I think it'd be more like 'three-way'. :)

However, I understood, insomuch as the spirit rather than the literalness of the question. :)

[identity profile] cerulean-me.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends on how you look at it.

*I'd* call it a double date, but I am a freak ;-)

[identity profile] irismoonlight.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a double date for *you,* dear.
But that hardly makes it a half-date for each of them. Hm.
So...call it a fig or a kumquat or ... a berry delightful evening.

*smile*

hrm

[identity profile] princessmei.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)

I thought a double date was an outing with two separate couples.

I suppose in a highly polyamorous group you could have a double date with two couples when each member of the pair of couples has separate interest in everyone there.

For example : Abby and Ben are on a date with Clara and Dennis. But Abby also dates Clara and Dennis and Ben also dates Clara and Dennis. In which case the double date could be a quadruple date.

I suppose, in theory, that if you are dating Amelia and Bernadette, and simultaneously Amelia and Bernadette are dating each other than I suppose it could be a double date.

So, um, who are these lovely young women?

megs

Re: hrm

[identity profile] cyranocyrano.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think they're dating each other yet, but they did seem to get along quite well. I'll wait and see how that turns out. (:
I met both Rachel and Tess on OKCupid (a dating website) within the past few months. One has a husband and two lovely children, and the other has school, and I play secondary to each in turn.
Rachel (Cerulean Me, in an above comment) said 'I want to meet Tess, make it so' and I dutifully did. (:
And they seemed to enjoy themselves greatly, and I certainly had a pleasant time.

[identity profile] lilithsaintcrow.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Certainly you may call it a double date. As long as you blog us all the details.

[identity profile] cyranocyrano.livejournal.com 2005-06-28 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Very few details, I fear. (: One of my girls wanted to meet the other and asked me to arrange it. So we went to Su's Mongolian Grill and sat for a few hours and talked, and they didn't hate each other. (:

[identity profile] murdoch.livejournal.com 2005-06-30 09:53 am (UTC)(link)
they didn't hate each other

That's a good thing. It gets much tougher to schedule when they do.