Where are you from?
May. 1st, 2008 10:48 amThis Friday, I want you to tell me about your home. It doesn't have to be more than a couple of sentences, and it can be about the physical structure you're in, or what city you're from, or what state you live in now. I want you to tell me about what feels like your Home, and how it feels.
EDIT: It has been brought to my attention that it's not Friday yet. So I've decided to open up this Friday's IFIAYAQ! Day and make it a special double-size issue! Woo! Bonus Question! For the same low low price!
EDIT: It has been brought to my attention that it's not Friday yet. So I've decided to open up this Friday's IFIAYAQ! Day and make it a special double-size issue! Woo! Bonus Question! For the same low low price!
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Date: 2008-05-01 05:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 05:59 pm (UTC)The thing I love about my current apartment is that the late afternoon sun streaming through the big glass windows and the breeze in the Liquid Amber tree just off of my balcony makes it the most PERFECT afternoon nap apartment EVAR. I sometimes curl up in the sun on the floor with the cats and nap contentedly by the screen door. And I've never been much of a napper before moving here.
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:01 pm (UTC)No, it's not Friday yet. Bah.
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 06:09 pm (UTC)Meaning, I've been here a long time, and this place has seen a lot, from sheer hell to the better times to little moments of bliss. It's about the fact that this place is a part of me, there are so many memories here, so much that shaped my life.
I'm going to have to leave it behind someday, hopefully for the right reasons. Whatever the reasons are, though, that'll be a sad day for me.
Edit:: huh. I didn't notice this was early either. Ah well. :D
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:15 pm (UTC)Any of these things can take me there, if they find me at the right moment.
Home is the ghosts of incense clinging to my pillows days after I last burnt any. It's the cat prrrrrpting at me, demanding scritches or tuna juice. It's the way that Dan lets me put my cold feet between his ankles when we curl up to sleep. It's my messy kitchen, and the seemingly infinite boxes with unsorted art supplies. It's bookshelves all jumbled from my pawing through looking for something that I feel like reading.
It's warm, even when I'm freezing. The walls will keep me safe and enclosed. The things inside are all mine to make use of. I know where most things are, and what they are for. The secrets here are mine.
Alternately, Home is where my family, both chosen and blood, happens to be. Because all of that? Far less enthralling when there's nobody I care for to create it with.
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:15 pm (UTC)The sad part is I am no longer just a few blocks from the local record store, but I guess that's better on my bank account, anyway.
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:38 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 06:40 pm (UTC)But really, Home is where people snuggle up to you and laugh at your jokes.
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 06:47 pm (UTC)I feel home when I'm sitting in my comfy leather recliner...reading a good book (I think you know the chair).
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:47 pm (UTC)I still call Cardiff home, though. I still miss the sea (Milton Keynes is about as far from the sea as you get in Britain). I miss people who'll talk to you on the street even though they've never met you. I miss the accent, the age and ethnicity of the city, the culture, the age, the architecture, the smells.
Part of me moves constantly to a tidal beat and new housing developments, shiny shopping centres and dry, dry weather just don't do it for me some days. This is one of those days, it turns out.
OTOH, today is my Friday anyway, because I have tomorrow off to organise poetry. Score!
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 06:54 pm (UTC){suspicion slowly dawns} Is this a Doctor Who/ Torchwood thing? Coz be warned - I still haven't got around to watching it (though my ex-girlfriend's fiancée works on Torchwood, designing sets).
Nice icon. What does the Chinese say?
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Date: 2008-05-01 06:58 pm (UTC)I have no idea what the Chinese says--I stole the image from a poster that fans were putting up before the Serenity movie. For all I know it says "I'm a stupid white person who thinks anything Chinese is cool."
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Date: 2008-05-01 07:00 pm (UTC)But have you ever gone somewhere on vacation and felt like you Belonged There? I thought it was a myth made up by people with too much imagination, until I visited Silicon Valley for the first time.
Unfortunately, my husband did not get the same feeling, and I'm kind of fond of him. Home is where he is, and I'm not sure how I would go about making another place Home without him.
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Date: 2008-05-01 07:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 07:39 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 07:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-01 08:10 pm (UTC)Our home is a condo that sits on a man-made island. The lagoons and waterways around our home are part of the baylands, and a place where birds and other creatures are protected by law. There are always birds, often geese, and they enrich the place is so many ways.
Our living room has one wall that's almost all glass, allowing us to look out over the lagoon, the San Mateo Bridge, the East Bay Hills, and on some smog-free days - San Francisco itself.
Aside from two rambunctious kittens it's an incredibly peaceful place. Erik and I have put a lot of improvements into the place, and we now have it the way we really want. We fully tiled both bathrooms, replaced the white carpet (yuck) with beautiful laminate flooring, and installed a big stainless steel sink in the kitchen.
The one thing I would like to do is replace our tile counters in the kitchen with natural stone. Erik wants to get the kitchen cabinets redone. Once these two projects are finished the place will be "perfect" for us.
We really love our home and we have no desire to move.
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Date: 2008-05-01 08:23 pm (UTC):)
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Date: 2008-05-01 10:23 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-02 05:11 pm (UTC)There's a big bay window that looks out over the water, and one of the things I miss most about living in California, is the lack of thunderstorms. Right around dusk, during the summer, it was pretty common to have thunderstorms rolling in across the bay. You could watch the line of rain coming toward you and once it was there, and it was the sound of the rain thumping on the roof, the lightning streaking across the sky, and the report of close or distant thunder that made it an experience.
Last summer when I visited, no thunderstorms. Was crushed. Perhaps I'll have better luck this year.
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Date: 2008-05-02 08:17 pm (UTC)Right now I live in Fremont in a house I have never managed to bond with. I'm trying to have this house feel more like my house but it is hard to exorcise the ghosts of his ex-girlfriends. Ugh.
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Date: 2008-05-03 01:48 am (UTC)