I used to do that. Then I realized that the future is a tricksy beast, and there is no way to predict what it will do. It may be a cliche, but the only constant in life really is change.
Does life ever keep going the same way indefinitely? If so your life is much more stable than mine has ever managed to be :) Hey, you got some time this Saturday where I could stop by for hugs and a little time with my favorite cat nephew?
Goodness, I hope not. To have no new challenges, no new joys, everything exactly the same as it is right now? To not have learned anything (you ARE in the middle of a huge learning curve)? Suck.
It won't. I promise. I can't promise it will be better, though I also can't say that it will be worse. But I can safely guarantee that it will be different.
Because I like you, I'll tell you a secret: There are no straight lines.
Sometimes there are curved bits with rather large radii, but those are rarer than most suppose. The observation I have of myself is that the reduction in radius of curvature is often quite visible before I reach it, but I don't believe it because I'm thinking in straight lines. Maybe that's my engineering education, but I suspect it's a tendency of the Western Mind. I blame Descartes.
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Date: 2009-02-27 07:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-02-27 07:44 am (UTC)Call me if you need to talk, ok?
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Date: 2009-02-27 03:46 pm (UTC)It won't. I promise. I can't promise it will be better, though I also can't say that it will be worse. But I can safely guarantee that it will be different.
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Date: 2009-02-27 03:49 pm (UTC)Kind of like a Christmas Carol but with fewer ghosts.
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Date: 2009-02-27 03:51 pm (UTC)I'll just say again that I love you, and I will.
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Date: 2009-02-27 03:53 pm (UTC)Toast would not forgive me otherwise. Let me know when is convenient for you.
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Date: 2009-02-27 03:55 pm (UTC)I just want to avoid some sort of J. Alfred Prufrock situation.
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Date: 2009-02-27 06:27 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-02-28 02:53 pm (UTC)Sometimes there are curved bits with rather large radii, but those are rarer than most suppose. The observation I have of myself is that the reduction in radius of curvature is often quite visible before I reach it, but I don't believe it because I'm thinking in straight lines. Maybe that's my engineering education, but I suspect it's a tendency of the Western Mind. I blame Descartes.
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Date: 2009-02-28 02:54 pm (UTC)